Colonel Steven Shay is Carly and Spencer's biological father. He is a Colonel in the U.S. Air Force, and currently on a tour of duty in a United States submarine. In iWon't Cancel The Show, he was docked somewhere near Anchorage, Alaska. It was implied in the same episode that he is involved in some kind of classified work when Spencer tells Carly that she "probably shouldn't give away their father's current position." But it's also possible that Spencer may have joking.
Dan Schneider, the producer of iCarly, cleared up the confusion about if he was in the Air Force or Navy: he was in the Air Force on a Navy Submarine. Officers in the military have more leeway in working with other branches, which would explain why her dad is in the Air Force, but on a Navy submarine.
Although Colonel Shay obviously loves both of his children very much, he's shown to get along much better with Carly and has kind of an attitude towards Spencer—such as when Spencer was talking to his dad over the phone about Oystomato and Colonel Shay said he didn't care or when Colonel Shay got mad when Spencer finally revealed that he dropped out of law school (to the point that he almost strangled his son out of anger).
He calls Spencer and Carly in iStill Psycho to make sure they and their friends are okay after being kidnapped by Nora Dershlit (apparently, the events of the episode ended up on the news). Spencer assured him that he, Carly and their friends were just fine.
The plot in iMeet The First Lady revolves around Sam and Freddie trying to help Carly stay in touch with her father on his birthday because he's not able to make it home as planned. He's almost seen in that episode as his face is partially obstructed by static.
He appears in the series finale, iGoodbye, to take Carly to a special father/daughter dance. It was during an iCarly webcast held in the episode that he finally learns that Spencer dropped out of law school. Although obviously angry with Spencer at first, Colonel Shay seems to get over it by the end of the episode, and when Spencer points out that he would've been a terrible lawyer, Colonel Shay seems to acknowledge this and accepts Spencer's passion for art. Spencer later asks him to send more money.
The actor portraying Colonel Shay on iGoodbye is named David Chisum (on his blog Dan Schneider spelled his name incorrectly as "David Chism").
Steven has not been able to see his kids due to being in the military. He also has had to back out on any get together. This doesn't make him a neglectful father however as he does remind his kids he loves them any chance he gets and does ask Carly if she is interested in moving with him to Italy.
- He is the father to Spencer and Carly.
- He works with the US. Air Force, but sometimes goes underwater in a submarine.
- Although he was often mentioned in the original series, his only actual appearance was in IGoodbye.
- He is mentioned twice in the revival series. - In IStart Over and ILove Gwen.