User blog comment:Eric the Grape/Misconceptions about the Seddie ship and its fans/@comment-2032682-20110328100044

>>They say when a girl constantly rips on a guy, it just means she has a crush on him.

That's elementary school behaviour and something kids grow out of as they become teenagers.

Why?

Because it's not healthy, doesn't endear you to anyone and is likely to get a girl who does this labelled an insane bitch, and a guy labelled as an abuser.

People don't change once they enter relationships, and a girl being physically and verbally abusive outside the relationship before it begins is going to act the same way in the relationship itself.

Seddie fans seem to love the idea that the fighting, insulting, bickering, tennis racquet breaking is all proof of 'hidden feelings' of love.

Sam breaks down and reveals she did it because she loves him. Maybe throw in some victim blaming by having Sam say she got angry at the attention Freddie gave Carly.

Freddie ignores the fact this is crazy behaviour. He reveals that he too loves Sam despite her being an abusive bully for almost the entire time he's known her.

Then what?

Do they continue in a relationship with Sam spanking Freddie, hitting him with tennis racquets, punching him, telling him no-one respects him, talking about how no-one (but her) will ever like him. Whoops, that's more like domestic abuse that love isn't it.

If their relationship was built upon a foundation of abuse = hidden love, then that's naturally what their relationship will be like once their 'love' is revealed. Sam won't suddenly change.

So either they continue and their relationship looks like either domestic abuse or sadomasochistic, or they completely change the way they interact and they don't even act like Sam and Freddie any more.