User blog comment:SeddieWarrior/Freddie Didn't Pity Sam/@comment-4505151-20111014042617

Love the blog Bianca!! ;) It is beyond me how anyone could possibly believe that Freddie only pitied Sam. It's like they don't understand his character at all. :P He would never have led her on for that long if all he felt for her was platonic love. He wouldn't play her like that.

In regards to iLMM:

I freaking agree! :P Freddie had three days to consider his feelings for her. When he talked to Carly it became clear that he wasn't sure how he was feeling. He deliberately avoided the question "do you like her?" because he wasn't sure for a fact, but he knew there were definitely some mixed feelings in there telling him that maybe Sam and him could be something more than friends. When he finally got to talk to Sam, he most likely wanted to tell her that she wasn't crazy for liking him because he feels something for her too, but she never gave him the chance to speak. She was the one who wanted to avoid talking about the kiss, yet he still insisted he didn't want to forget. Sam basically gave him a safe way out telling him to just forget it. If Freddie didn't like her, don't you think he would have taken the opportunity? Yet Freddie was confused and disappointed because somewhere inside him he wanted her. While they were live on the web and everyone was telling them how he and Sam belonged together, he probably realized how right they were. He realized he didn't want to avoid talking about the kiss or his feelings based on the kiss. He wasn't going to be afraid of Sam anymore. What he wanted mattered to, and he wanted Sam. Did you see the longing in his eyes when he walked up to her? It wasn't pity because she liked him. He realized just how much he wanted her. The kiss was very necessary in my opinion because actions speak louder than words. Had Freddie told her that he would be willing to give their relationship a try, that's what would've made it look like pity. But there was no pity in his eyes. It was just confidence and desires. No more playing games, he realized it was time to man up and get his girl.

In regards to iLove you: Agreed! You could see that he loves her. How could it possibly be considered pity when he was the one who told her he loved her first? When he was the one who stopped her in her tracks just so she could be aware of the fact that his heart belonged to her? I don't get the way some people think. :P They're so desperate to believe that Freddie doesn't really love Sam, they start ignoring facts. :p

And people that genuinely believe that Sam and Freddie wanted to break up? They make me laugh. :p Sam and Freddie are in love with each other, but they're feeling like all odds are against them. It made sense for them to feel the way they did after all the obstacles they were forced to overcome over the course of their relationship. They probably took it to mean that they were trying to force a relationship that wasn't meant to be. They were trying to be something they weren't, and they both realized that. They weren't thinking about how all the conflicts they were able to resolve actually proved just how strong their relationship was. They're in love, they just feel like they both have some growing up to do. They love each other so much that they decided they should be strong and let each other go now before they grew to resent each other later. That doesn't mean they love each other any less though. If anything, it proves they love each other more. They love each other enough to let go no matter how much pain and heart break it brings them. It was evident in the way they spoke and the look in their eyes that the break up was killing them slowly.

"So...did we just break up?" "Looks like it." "..Oh well." And at that moment, Freddie stopped her. He knew that this was his last chance to tell her how he really felt. He was in love with her and she had to be aware of that.

Freddie and Sam love each other. Their hearts belong to one another. It's sad some people can't see that.

"Absence makes the heart grow fonder." Once Sam and Freddie grow up and realize that they're perfectly imperfect and that's the way they're meant to be, then they'll find their way back to each other. :)

And I never thought about how he closed his eyes and bit his lip right before he told her he loved her! Great point! ;)