User blog comment:Blueefairyy/Now iCarly is Ending... (Important) :o/@comment-3247345-20120527052136/@comment-3247345-20120528034907

If they take shipping to far I'm willing to agree that it might turn them off of the show. I also agree with your second paragraph, but I don't think that problem is as big as most people think. Part of the problem with one ship expressing their ideas on another ship's page is that the people who take things seriously enough to do that usually end up being rude or sounding rude. When that's the case, it understandable that people would react that way. But in the rare case that a shipper expresses their opinion on the other ship's page without coming off as rude, I don't think people really have a problem with it. There was this one Creddie shipper that came on the Seddie page not too long ago and said "this is why I like Creddie, why do you guys like Seddie" and she asked us how we see the pros and cons of each ship. She was very polite and no one said "go back on your own page".

Like I said, I don't think this is a huge problem. I think for the most part the Creddie and Seddie shippers do get along, but we only hear about it when they don't. We hear so much about Seddie and Creddie fighting, but no one publicizes it when they do get along. Like that Creddie shipper I mentioned. No one really publicizes stuff like that. But if someone would have come on the page to start a fight, news of that fight would have been all over the fandom. I hate shipping wars as much as you do, it just that I don't think it happens as much as shippers actually being polite to each other.

@Seddiejathanfan It's totally possible to agree with both of us. I really don't think we disagree about that much actually. I think we're just looking at things from different perspectives. edit