Talk:Seddie/@comment-24015721-20131226213019/@comment-14284535-20131231003604

IMHO, the most important part of the Seddie relationship is to analyse the Arc - but view it outside of the context of the series and just look at it as a stand-alone 5 episode serial. Each episode examines a different facet of real issues that real relationships go through:

Someone has to make the first move and conquer whatever fears you have. (iOMG)

The person who made the first move may regret it because of past circumstances. But the other person might reciprocate too. (iLost My Mind)

The new couple has to learn to solve their own problems without dragging their friends into the middle of it and have to avoid all their bad habits as friends. (iDate Sam and Freddie)

Any skeleton in your closet will get exposed. If you don't own it up front, you are in big trouble. Even better, don't do the issue in the first place. And even your most trusted friends may want to break you up up out of malice (which make that person a lousy friend). (iCan't Take It)

When you introduce the other partner to some part of your life that s/he hasn't seen or participated in, discuss it and agree to something almost palatable to the other. Also, don't lie about whether you want to do it or not. And just because you have fallen in love, it doesn't mean you work as a couple. (iLove You)