User blog comment:GiantKid/Why I don't ship Seddie :)/@comment-3122172-20110911144420/@comment-4061054-20110911153044

"Sam sees some things in her mom that she doesn't like (despite loving her mother). Who's to say she won't change to be a different mother than she is?" So true. She would never want to turn into her mother.

"Freddie DOES accept and love Sam, but he's always criticized when she's done wrong. Ex: Putting bees in Mr. Frax's car. Like Carls said, that's "Violating a man. Course it was wrong. Course Freddie would criticize it. Carly also loves and accepts Sam. She knows that Sam is messy and rough, and sometimes she criticizes it, but she mostly accepts it. Carly and Freddie treat Sam basically the same (One of the reasons I don't like Creddie. They like have the same brain). They both thought it was wrong about the bees and other things that Sam has done (Stealing the petographers cat, messing with grades in iPromise Not to Tell, ect...)." Agreed. He's never hesitated to criticize Sam when she's done wrong. You can accept and love someone and still be annoyed when they take things too far. "I guess it's just your opinion, but in mine, it's not that Carly and Freddie are afraid to fight lol. They just don't, because there's nothing to fight about. The most they do is lightly tease. Very lightly tease in a very friendshippy sort of way." I agree.They really don't have anything real to fight over. Their personalities do go so well together. But they do spare each others feelings way too frequently. They're stuck in their little comfort zone with one another. Each is afraid of annoying/hurting the other. (ex: iwant more viewers (after he brags about how he and spencer are going to win).Freddie: I feel bad for you Carly, not for you Sam.) He couldn't be real with her. He just didn't want to offend her. And Carly really only mocks and pranks Freddie when Sam is doing it/convinces her to. (Ex: iTwins: (after they prank Freddie) Carly:She made me do it!) She just wouldn't be comfortable slightly offending and messing around with Freddie. Her light teasing such as the joke about tweenpants.com doesn't count. Which is sweet, I have to admit. It's probably what creddiers like about it anyway. That they're so nice to each other. But it still causes a lack of development on the creddie side and shows that they aren't comfortable showing themselves to the other at their worst. People might view it as romantic that they feel that way around each other, but I find that it goes against what so many creddiers love about creddie in the first place: that they're completely 100% comfortable around each other.