Thread:CreddieCupcake/@comment-4542190-20120708185319/@comment-3999180-20130125155802

Pahaha okay, I'll rant! :) xD

I don't understand at all how anyone could ever see that kiss as just a goodbye kiss. xD If it had been Seddie kissing goodbye when Sam was leaving, we all know good and well that the Seddiers would've called that canon endgame and rubbed our faces in it for all time. xD The thing is, oddly enough, if it were Seddie, I could almost see it being a goodbye. :O I know that sounds like I have a double-standard, and I know I am indeed very biased about this. xD But! Hear me out: when Sam and Freddie got together, there was little to no actual emotional connection. :o They never talked about how they felt until they broke up, and very little then. :o Most of their relationship was physical - with the making out and everything, and confessing to not hanging out or having any of the same interests. :o I know a lot of people say that, with Creddie, all they did was kiss. And I've seen iSYL and I can be objective enough to see that what they're saying does contain some truth. :o Don't get me wrong - I don't think Carly's feelings were simply hero worship or any of these other lies peddled by the trolls, but I can definitely see that they didn't talk about their relationship enough, and that was why they broke up at the end, to me. :o They broke up because they didn't feel that they had something concrete that made their relationship. :o Freddie was smart enough to see that them getting together in odd circumstances and spending all of their time kissing, and none talking, didn't make for a good healthy relationship, regardless of what their true feelings were (which was true love of course). So they broke up. However. iSYL was Creddie only in the relationship for a day or two, whereas Seddie had the entire Seddie arc to discuss their feelings, and still ended up making out constantly and then breaking up (and making out again). To me, Creddie was everything about how they felt about each other, even if they didn't know how to show it yet (they didn't have time, in just one episode!), and Seddie was everything about feeling each other in a more physical way than emotional or romantic. :o Sam and Freddie made out after they broke up, whereas Carly simply kissed Freddie on the cheek. :o To me, this shows a lot about their relationships. Sam and Freddie were more about the physical end, so a goodbye kiss, for them, almost would make sense, in a way. :o I wouldn't discount it as a Seddie moment, but Seddie endgame would have been doubtful in my mind, given the above and also my obvious bias. xD But with Creddie, since their relationship was never about the physical so much as about the emotional (we can see this in iSD, when they could have kissed, but instead held each other in their arms for a long while, simply enjoying being together emotionally and in a romantic sense - the dance was hardly intense physical contact, so I claim that as an emotional moment moreso than a physical one, which is mostly what Seddie boasts), a goodbye kiss just doesn't make sense, if it were entirely unattached. :o Seddie may have kissed goodbye in iLove You (which in my opinion was a dumb thing to do, and probably only added in for comedy, because otherwise the ending of that episode would've been sad), but Creddie has never kissed goodbye, because their relationship is more emotional than physical. Creddie crossing the line to become physical again indicates intense emotional feelings. AND THEN OF COURSE THE FIST PUMP. I'll admit, when watching the episode, I was sort of disappointed with the kiss. I'd known about it before hand because of the promos, and I'd hoped that there would actually be some kind of dialogue so we would have it official that they loved each other (moreso than simply seeing them kiss, you know what I mean), but when Freddie fist-pumped was when I truly knew we'd won. :) And THERE, dear sir, was my rant. xDD I'm glad you're the only one who's going to see this, because a lot of other people would probably find it offensive. xD

That makes sense! :) It's just, I don't know...I love him. Really I do, I love him. But I don't know if it's romantic love. :o I love him as my best friend and he means so, so, so much to me and I don't know what I would ever do without him. But, while I definitely like him romantically, I'm not willing to go the extra mile and say that I love him. :o I've never been one to toss around that word - I've never dated anyone before. He's even the first guy who I've ever told I liked him. And I'm 18 years old. xD

That's fantastic! :) Have you gotten to speak to her anymore recently? :O

Nonono, Ron wanted acceptance and love, because he thought she would never love him. :o Which is the same as Freddie dating other girls and asking Carly, "You won't be jealous?" and such. :) And I loved the dynamic that she had to save him. xD He was so goofy, it fit. :) And he would have done anything for her. :) Oh, it's all right! :) I don't mind debating, but if you'd rather, we can stop here. :)

Pahaha I'm so sorry, but it's just not up to the standard of those others! D: Gordo and Lizzie...Kim and Ron...even Zoey and Chase...they're just my main ships, I guess you'd say. :) I tend to measure others by those. :)

And thank you! :) I think I have writers' block currently. xD