User blog comment:Hihi-Killer/Hi everyone/@comment-26014718-20120703201909

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Are. You. Serious?

You really think they don't try to speak to us? Cause they actually do! They say Hi, sometimes- if they're lucky we greet them back. But after that? They are totally pushed out of the way! The only way they aren't ignored if they PM us.

I'm sorry but ... you don't know what is it like to be ignored and pushed out of the way. You are not new, you have confidence to come on everyday. While other users don't! They're too scared that we wont accept them or just ignore them again, we are ALWAYS greeted straight away. Newbies? They are never greeted as much!

You're expecting them to make an effort omg..,

Take it from THEIR POV:

You're new to chat, you dont know anybody, and you're scared that no one will like you.

You enter chat, all you get is 1 or 2 "Hi's" when there is like 10 people on. And YOU have to say Hi first to earn one back.

You try talking to some users, it's hard to keep up when comments are flying like hell, the user responds vaguely uninterested and you feel unliked.

Afterwards a user comes on and everyone's like "HEY HEY *USERNAME*" "OMG HEY HEY HEY"

And then everyone is foucisng on them, ignoring you because no one knows you so they just stick to their own friennds.

THIS is why people go to Victorious chat, this is why I go to victorious chat now.

Heck, even i get ignored and feeled pushed out.... so unless you're in THEIR shoes you have no right to say they dont even try to say anything,

PLUS they're NEW they dont know what we're like, what chat is like. So stp expecting them to know what you want them to do and just accept we're unwelcoming, unfriendly on chat -__-.