User blog comment:Lyrical Saint/Why Freddie said he loved Sam/@comment-4473095-20110925160810

Thank you for this blog. :) I completely agree! ;) I read that theory too and I fought myself not to respond. I decided to respond on the Seddie page.

"Anyway, I disagree with this theory. Sam & Freddie don't just love each other as friends. They said iLove You to one another! Love doesn't go away. They both know that.You could see it in their eyes. They both just feel like they have a lot of growing up to do. And once they do, they will become a couple again. A stronger one too since they will be able to overcome their differences and make their relationship work. Freddie wouldn't have told her he loved her if he didn't mean it. It was obviously meant in a romantic way too, and it clearly affected Sam's emotions (in a romantic way) since it caused her to kiss him. You don't kiss someone that you realized you only have platonic feelings for (which is why Carly never kissed Freddie after he explained the bacon theory to her). They're obviously still into one another. They both couldn't stand the idea of breaking up, and they were even procrastinating and trying to avoid the break up. They were way too reluctant to break up for their feelings for each other to be dismissed as friendly closure.

And the Seddie arc proved that Seddie does work. In ids&f, Sam and Freddie needed to be able to work through their fights, which they obviously managed to succeed with. In iCTI, it was proven that Sam and Freddie can get through others' trying to sabotage their relationship. Freddie was able to see the good in Sam despite whatever horrible pranks she pulls on him. They all helped prove that Sam&Freddie's relationship is strong enough to overcome all these conflicts. Sam and Freddie can work their way through anything, even if they might not have realized it. They probably took it to mean that they were trying to force a relationship that wasn't meant to be. They weren't thinking about how all the conflicts they were able to resolve actually proved just how strong their relationship was. I hate the way they broke up. I feel Sam and Freddie weren't thinking straight.

And while they did in fact know the way they felt about each other, it was obviously not in the "We were never meant to be more than friends? What were we thinking?" way. It was in the " Our feelings for each other are mutual and we are in fact in love, but right now I think we might be in way over our heads. And once Sam and Freddie grow up and realize that they're perfectly imperfect and that's the way they're meant to be, then they'll find their way back to each other. :)"

Great blog! I've always enjoyed reading your blogs. You're very reasonable and you make great points. :)