Talk:Seddie/@comment-3180503-20141224181647/@comment-1976613-20141224185836

What do you mean not fair to the shippers? Not fair to the shippers? Who cares about the shippers? It's not fair to the celebrities that they have to be shipped in the first place. Some people (Nathan) clearly handle it better than others (Jennette), Jennette was always the more emotional one anyway. Sure anyone can ignore it or deal with it for a while, but you know as well as anyone that Jennette is much more impulsive and reacts more to fan pressure than Nathan ever did.

Let me give you a real life example of why exactly it would bother someone so much, especially someone who's emotional like Jennette, if people kept on forcing someone who she wasn't sure she had feelings for/had feelings for at all into a relationship it would cause a quick and immediate drift. Say, for example, in an alternate universe, I really liked Bread, and really wanted you and him to get together, and you still weren't sure how you felt about him/didn't like him as much (just like real life) but every day I yelled at you and was like "why are you stringing this poor guy along! Look at all the time you spent together! You clearly love him! You would be perfect! I know how you feel better than you do listen to me!" and I did that every day, no, every hour, of every day for a year in 2011. You would immediately and suddenly cut ties wouldn't you? Wouldn't that get taxing? Wouldn't that make you just resent him? Of course it would. Just because people are in the public eye doesn't mean they are some sort of super people who are impervious to that kind of stuff.