User blog comment:Cartoonprincess/DEBATE: Does Sam deserve Freddie?/@comment-2246006-20101228174914

Well, I'm kind of torn on that. She has vigorously abused him in the past, both emotioally and physically (but to her credit she's toned down on that lately). She's teased him, bullied him, and harassed him without good cause. When you look at it in that context, the answer would normally be a resounding no.

But what you have to take into consideration, I think, is that Freddie doesn't seem to mind it. Heck, iKiss made it seem as though he even liked it on some level. I think he realizes that the abuse, while occasionally mean-spirited, is just Sam's way of expressing herself. She doesn't know what else to do. She's slowly started to come around recently, abusing him less and less and treating him like a friend, which means that she might be finding new ways to express her feelings. But to get back to the point: he understands Sam. He accepts her for who she is, even at the expense of his own well-being. He's a very understanding and caring person. Or maybe just a masochist.

But my answer, based on all of that is...well, I'm still torn. I think the only one who could really dtermine whether or not Sam deserves Freddie is Freddie. This is a complex issue, with no easy answer.

P.S.: I don't think the fact that "Carly has everything" is a valid reason for her not to end up with Freddie. That's like saying a well-rounded, nice kid with rich parents and great friends shouldn't go to Harvard because his life is already good enough.