Talk:Seddie/@comment-3180503-20150517130232/@comment-24139638-20150517135637

There's always all this talk about "if Jennette just gave Nathan another chance then things would be amazing", as if Jennette is single handedly holding them back from something great. But maybe, just maybe, neither of them wants to go back. Maybe both of them have moved on from whatever sordid messy feelings they had for eachother. Maybe neither of them wants Jathan anymore. It ended for a reason and I know you don't like to think it, but maybe that reason was reason enough to not want to go back, ever.

Also, what happened between them happened a long time ago. They are completely different people who have been through a lot, especially Jennette. Just because they had great magnetic chemistry at 16, doesn't mean the same will ring true at almost 23.

It's easily been 3 years at this point, if not more and sure, people may still harbor the occasional stray thought about an ex (almost, boyfriend, whatever) as time passes, but that doesn't mean you want to revisit it or that you should.

They've both been single at more or less the same time since whatever happened between them happened. If either of them still wanted it, they could have made it happen. But they didn't because they don't. I know there's this theory that Jennette is "keeping Nathan at arm's length so she doesn't fall for him again", but if she still wanted to be with him in anyway, why would she hold herself back from that when he was single? And if Nathan had wanted her, why did he pour all of his time and energy into Carly instead of running back to Jennette.

My point is, they both had opportunity. They didn't take it, so maybe it's all very simple.

They just don't want it anymore.