Thread:Godlovesusall/@comment-4948262-20120628060956/@comment-4542190-20120628102255

I wanted to stress what I believe this was about- because you don't know how many times I've heard things like "Freddie only thought he loved Carly/it wasn't serious or real love, just a fool and immature crush" (and I can't tell you how much this disgusts me), to counter those people. Because, if they were right, this wouldn't have happened (or Freddie would have realised this himself right after having such a shock as a near-death experience and he wouldn't be with Carly in the first place). That was my aim there.

You know, I have some thoughts of me I don't let come out. I don't write them down, even on the Creddie page (because most Seddiers feel "safe" to write everything they want on the Seddie page and vice versa. Though I don't think that all of these are true hearted Seddiers and Creddiers. Anyway) because I exactly know that some will really dislike what they will read (if they choose to read it), some may even be hurt-even though those specific thoughts of me have strong support from the show itself I believe. Lately however, I think that, compared to some other things I've read, they're nothing. And I won't claim that "it's not bashing, just my opinion". Whenever you say, "just my opinion" this doesn't give you a no-bashing guarantee (for me at least). For example, it was Hitler's opinion that he should rule the world according to his "beliefs". It was Nietzsche's opinion that the "strong" must exterminate the "weak" (in stead of help them). Extreme examples, I know, but I want to be explicit. If one says "(ship name) sucks. No bashing, just my opinion" it will be like that? For the love of God (and there are many ways to say something like that. Especially indirectly). Not saying what I think is necessarily bashing of course.

And come on, don't say you're a wimp, don't do this to yourself. I'm pretty sure that if you saw some specific person(s) in danger, you'd do anything in your power to help them, "automatically". You'd even take a bullet- I would, for some people I love so much... And I wasn't mad in the first place, why be now? :) And you don't need to apologise for what other people say or think (unless you control their mind somehow, lol), you're not their parent or guardian or something to take responsibility.