Thread:Cartoonprincess/@comment-5998251-20150522014436

Am I the only one that after all this time, I realize how sick it is to be shipping two people that have real lives. I mean we know nothing about them and we assume they tell us everything. I inwardly cringe everytime a jathan shipper does a manip and directs it at the actors. It is emotionally damaging. You are forcing a relationship that they are not ready for yet or do not want to be in by scrutinizing how they act on a surface level. It disturbs me that there is people out there who thinks there is nothing wrong with telling the actor/actress all about how they are shipping them together. They are not their fictional characters. You are making them change themselves by bothering them about this dating business everyday and it makes their relationship more awkward. It is downright bullying and peer pressure. You are making the actors/actresses upset by calling them dumb for not being with the person you want them to be with. But, the way we can avoid this is if we don't @ the people we are shipping. Real life shipping is alright as long as we don't amplify it on twitter to the point where actors feel uncomfortable. Maybe they aren't. But, if I was in there shoes, I would avoid the person others ship me with because of awkwardness. This is probably a major factor of why they don't seem like they are best friends at the moment (Jathan). 