User blog comment:Cartoonprincess/Creddie vs. Seddie: Who Would Freddie Be Happier With?/@comment-3027660-20110106014150/@comment-2208586-20110108172943

Sam said (In iGo to Japan) that she doesn't listen to herself when she speaks. :/ Probably random.

And it's true that Carly and Sam both emotionally abuse him. But. Carly "plays" with his feelings. Sam doesn't. Probably because she hasn't the strenght to do it (Freddie loved Carly, so she's the one who can cause him most of the pain ["The people we love are always the people who can break our hearts and hurt us most."] -- and she uses it. Freddie, meanwhile, even said that he doesn't really listen to what Sam says. So, yes, Sam does attack him emotionally - but she doesn't cause him that much pain as Carly, and that's why people say that about Carly.