Talk:Seddie/@comment-4956006-20120421163727/@comment-3553219-20120421235334

Here is what I don't understand. How could anyone who ships Creddie think Seddie is abusive? Not counting iDS&F (when she got fed up at being dragged into it all) she stood up for Freddie pretty much once. If what is happening is abuse then how is it OK for Carly to stand by and do nothing for years? If what is happening is abuse how can Carly just laugh when Sam says she at least hasn't hit Freddie in the face and think it is sweet? If what it happening is abuse how is Carly not also a terrible person for not caring?

Or is the more common sense answer that given all of the character reactions. How Freddie still likes Sam as a person (just putting aside ship stuff), how Carly mostly doesn't have an issue with their behavior, how Mrs. Benson lets Freddie be around Sam, how could Spencer say "you kids have fun" when Sam is running off with Freddie screaming on her shoulder etc. Given all of that maybe it isn't abuse. Maybe it is a comedy show where people do things to make the audience laugh and no one in the show takes it very seriously and we shouldn't either?

I don't think Seddie is abusive (they bicker mutually) so I don't have any issues with Carly's behavior. She sits back and lets her friends fight. It isn't her place to get involved most of the time. But if it goes too far or they drag her into it she says something.