Talk:Seddie/@comment-11125355-20130207012244/@comment-5679407-20130207051159

That's what is vexing sometimes about arguing with some Creddiers--is the lack of understanding in the difference between Sam and Carly's personalities, and more prominently in their approach to romantic relationships. Some Creddiers like to simply label Sam as a bully and dismiss any romantic possibilities between her and Freddie--even though they were in a longer relationship that resulted in them falling in love with each other.

It's as you say, Icy, Carly is outgoing and when she likes a guy she'll tell him. Sam on the other hand falls prey to her insecurities which were first highlighted in iHate Sam's Boyfriend--where she kept wondering why Jonah would ask her out, believing most boys to find her "abrasive." In iKiss, when Carly asks her if she's really never kissed any one, Sam sarcastically replies: "you're shocked?" What about iMake Sam Girlier? In iLost My Mind, before Freddie's feelings were made clear, she automatically dismissed them, defending herself by claiming that there's no way she'd ever "go out with [him] or be his little girlfriend." Sam may be tough as nails, but, emotionally, she's insecure.

I'm sure you've heard the Creddiers saying that Sam liking Freddie was completley random, as if she were supposed to approach the situation differently. Sam did what Sam was supposed to do: go for broke. iOMG was about Sam being brave and daring, and "making a move," as Carly suggested. So it was obviously going to be an impulsive and "intense" moment, since the only one in her way was herself. Forgive Icy, I'm ranting. But there are never any worries on the Seddie page, right? :).