Talk:Seddie/@comment-3180503-20141223230934

A thought just occurred to me while I was in the shower...

Since we love bringing our personal lives into this, I had this thing with a guy where we were friends but never just friends. We did try to go out (we actually met on the day he asked me out) but it never felt completely right. Nevertheless, we continued to hang out and there would always be a lingering tension between us when we did.

Then, finally, one night, we hooked up and we haven't really spoken since (aside from a few idle words here and there). It's not that we dislike each other or that there is any ill will between us; it's simply that we cannot bounce back to being friends in the way that we were after what happened. Also, we're both very emotional people and we distance ourselves from emotional situations as a defense mechanism.

It dawned on me that this could be precisely what happened to Jathan. Maybe they were together one night, fooled around, did some things, and then they realized that they could never go back to hanging out normally without it being weird and awkward. Perhaps they eventually planned to rekindle what they had at some point in the near future, but then Jennette's mom got sick again and Nathan got a girlfriend which just made things weirder.

Basically, I'm sort of agreeing with @Moden and @Drenched in that they did actually physically hook up at some point and that their feelings did get in the way of their friendship.

Just a theory. xP