User blog comment:GiantKid/Why I don't ship Seddie :)/@comment-3122172-20110911144420

Here's that comment I promised:

1. You think the fact that they are playing 'the game' is only suitable for friendship. But Dan created it to blossom into romance. That much is obvious (and HAS been obvious seeing as many MANY people ship Seddie). But that's only your opinion so I can't argue with it. I do have a problem with how you said how Sam treats/treated Freddie 'isn't right.' Well, it was one thing when they were 13 and she was always hitting him, but soon enough it didn't just become something Freddie 'put up with'. It became something he enjoyed. He likes teasing Sam just as much as Sam lies teasing him. That's how they work and yet they still manage to fall in love with each other. Ya either like it or you don't. Creddiers don't, Seddiers do :P Nothing I can change there.

2. Wrong, sir! Freddie does like it. He doesn't just "accept and look past her aggressive behavior. He looks forward to it. Are we watching the same show? LOL. In iDSF, the point of the storyline'' was that they couldn't stop arguing. Of course it's about silly things. Sam and Freddie have been solving their own fights since mid-season 2. They really haven't ever needed Carly to stop them from fighting. It was just the plot of the episode and it was exaggerated to get the point across. It amazes me how many people don't get that.

Freddie DOES accept and love Sam, but he's always criticized when she's done wrong. Ex: Putting bees in Mr. Frax's car. Like Carls said, that's "Violating a man.'' Course it was wrong. Course Freddie would criticize it. Carly also loves and accepts Sam. She knows that Sam is messy and rough, and sometimes she criticizes it, but she mostly accepts it. Carly and Freddie treat Sam basically the same (One of the reasons I don't like Creddie. They like have the same brain). They both thought it was wrong about the bees and other things that Sam has done (Stealing the petographers cat, messing with grades in iPromise Not to Tell, ect...).

Just because they criticize doesn't mean they don't accept and love her. And you're also very wrong that Freddie never initiates attacks on Sam. You need to re-watch a few older episodes because he's done it plenty of times. Course it's been awhile since I watched an episode under season 4 and 5, but I can tell you it happened. You might have to ask a slightly more obsessed Seddier than me for an example because I can't think of one off the top of my head.

3. Hmmm what about Sam and Freddie in iKiss? Sam humiliated Freddie to the point that he stopped coming to school and talking to his mom. I think that counts as being just as bad as the Cam fight in iQuit iCarly, iSaw Him First, and iDon't Want to Fight (DANG Carly and Sam have lots of fighting episodes...). Really, the only main pairing who never fights is Creddie. IMO, Seddie has passion. Even Cam (in general. I'm not into it romantically at all) has a certain amount of passion as far as best girl friends can go. Sam/Freddie and Carly/Sam have clashing personalities. I'll agree that previous Seddie argument was not out of passion (Of course not. They were like 12 in the first episode xD). But it has grown to be. Obviously since they're a couple now :P

''Freddie doesn't argue with Carly because he is afraid of ruining anything, it's because their personalities don't conflict, and if he is, that just makes it the more cute for Creddie because they are afraid of getting to that point where they open themselves enough to get into a relationship. -GiantKid'' I have no clue where you got this from. I guess it's just your opinion, but in mine, it's not that Carly and Freddie are afraid to fight lol. They just don't, because there's nothing to fight about. The most they do is lightly tease. Very lightly tease in a very friendshippy sort of way.

To me, Carly/Freddie is the same as Carly/Spencer. Carly treats him the same way :P My opinion only, no forced agreement :)

4. LOL really?! I'm sorry, but Sam and Freddie are always hanging out without Carly, always together (being the sidekicks of the show) and sorry to say, but eh...Freddie's ALWAYS been himself around Sam. Which is why she knows he's a 'dork'. In earlier seasons, Freddie may have been a little hesitant around her, but he thinks of her just as much as a friend as Carly.

Remember first in iReunite With Missy, it was "That THING isn't my friend!!" And now it's (in iLMM) "Look, we're REALLY close friends with Sam."

Sorry, but I don't see it. LOL Carly and Freddie have nothing that Sam and Freddie don't in my opinion. Maybe you see something extra special for Creddie because....well you're a Creddier, but I don't see it. Enlighten me, I want some examples.

5. Best friends, yes. Soul mates....depends on how you look on it. Seddiers don't think so, but Creddiers do :P That's just how it works. I see nothing but being friends. Since their first scene together in iPilot, We can be buds. To the present day: iCan't take it- Carly calls Freddie (Along with Sam) one of her best friends. I'm sorry, but as of season 5, Carly stresses the line of calling Freddie her 'friend/best friend'. I see no soul mates. Freddie's crush on her has faded and he is in love with Sam now. I guess you think they're soul mates because you ship Creddie?

Don't get me wrong. I love the Creddie frienship and always have. I just don't think they have anything that Seddie doesn't. The reason why I love the Creddie friendship even though I don't see anything special about it is that it is completely platonic.

They can still be best friends more than ever even though he loves Sam. It will always be that way in iCarly canon. Carly doesn't have any feelings for Freddie as of now. He doesn't have feelings for her as of now. Which is why I love their friendship. Completely platonic just like Harry/Hermione. And yet...Ron/Hermione is canon. Same reasons like Creddie/Seddie.

6. Un....real....istic....? Oh goodness. Bwahahahahahaha. I'm sorry, but no. I'm sure my other fellow Seddiers have given you long, discribtive reasons why you're wrong, so I won't go there. You can believe it's unrealistic, but sorry...reality: it's not :P It happened. So...it's just not. You may have some sort of fanon image of what you think Seddie is like, but the creator of the show designed them the way they are, and since they are together now, it is realistic. So maybe your vision of Seddie just isn't realistic?

7. Don't agree. Sam sees some things in her mom that she doesn't like (despite loving her mother). Who's to say she won't change to be a different mother than she is?

Key difference from Sam and her mom: Sam has Freddie. A good stable guy.

According to iPWV, Sam's dad left. Pam Puckett did not have a Freddie.

She does not need to change for Seddie. She can be the exact same way she is now, no problem at all. iSell Penny Tees was an OOC episode (meaning DAN did not write it as he wrote all of the other Seddie episodes).

Yeah, so I'm not really in agreement with you, but again: Thanks for actually using your noggin and not just blabbing on about unrealistic theories like other Creddiers. People who use their brains, I will gladly debate with. Some other Creddie people make me SMH or LMAO, but as long as you keep a level head and actually make sense, I have no problem listening to what you have to say. GREAT blog.