User blog comment:Rachim/Sad Creddiers/@comment-2208586-20110411184428/@comment-3419317-20110412010842

@ ILive4Seddie :

... Huh?

What in the world are you talking about?

I was talking about how Rachim told the Creddiers how awful and heartbreaking it would be if Freddie chose to be with Carly instead of Sam ... which I don't agree with, by the way, as I stated in my post above ... and how they should be wanting Freddie to be with Sam instead of Carly.

She was basically telling them that they shouldn't want what they want because of the pain it would cause.

"I would never want to see sam heart broken" "Don't you want Sam to be happy" "Can't you just let Sam have 1 bf..."

Rachim was making the Creddiers feel guilty about wanting Carly and Freddie together, presumably to get them to change their minds and agree that it would be better for Freddie to be with Sam instead. That's why I called it laying on a "guilt trip" on them. What would you call it?

I'd actually call it exactly what you just tried to do to me. Telling me all about how nice it would be for this girl to get the one boy she has truly loved for so long.

As I mentioned in the post above, I support the Sam/Freddie relationship, and I also support the Carly/Freddie relationship as well. Am I supposed to feel guilty because I would be happy to see Carly and Freddie as a couple as well as if Sam and Freddie became one? Or because I don't think that feeling sorry for Sam should stop people from shipping Carly/Freddie if they really like that relationship?

For that matter, I don't even understand why anybody should be made to feel bad over whether or not they're particularly concerned about a fictional character getting her heart broken, anyway.

The Creddiers are unhappy because iOMG makes it look like their favored ship won't happen. My question to Alica123 was basically, How would it make things better to make the Creddiers feel guilty about even wanting it in the first place?