Talk:Seddie/@comment-3180503-20140815184753/@comment-14284535-20140815215453

First, why is them breaking up such a big deal? Remember what I said about 1 out of 7 couples who date at this age get married? So they are just in the other 86%. Sadistics, er statistics indicated that this was the way you wanted to place your bet in Vegas, baby. The only thing that is surprising is that they don't seem to get along any more.

Second, it could be that the problem they have with each other is related to inexperience as BF/GF. I was forbidden from dating until college ( never mind that my sisters who are 1 and 3 years younger than I am were allowed to date before I was ). I was a crummy BF - not because I was a bad person, but because I didn't understand about how to communicate within a relationship. Break-ups can be rough in those cases.

Third, how can any of us feel intelligent about assigning blame? Again, we have no idea about what happened. Maybe Nathan was always going to evolve away from Jennette once the break in iCarly filming came along. For all we know, Nathan might have gone this route if he HAD dated Jennette, Miranda, or whoever. Perhaps the mere fact that he dated someone made him change his attitude. Maybe Jennette is still upset that whatever she wanted from him didn't work. And none of these are things are anybody's fault. They are life.

To quote the game, we don't know jack.