Talk:Seddie/@comment-24015721-20140623202813/@comment-24341760-20140624002522

Every date doesn't get a goodnight kiss! What is going on with today's youth? The ones who you don't want to kiss, those are the ones you don't go out with again. That's how you know. If you kiss them all, how can you weed them out? Men know this. They don't all think they're going to get a kiss. They may try to go for it, but you can deflect. They know when you give off a "not happening" vibe. (I am told I'm quite good at that. Yay?) You don't have to kiss anyone, and anyone who makes you feel obligated to do so is not a good person. Here's what I wish someone had told me: it's very simple. There will definitely be at least one person you will WANT to kiss. You will just want to, it will be effortless. You won't even have to think about it. ( Do you have to think about whether you like chocolate? No.  Same deal. ) Even if there's only one, (which there won't be), that's ok. Feel free to reject a lot of people. :). You will reject more than you accept, that's just simple math, There's nothing wrong with you. There are a lot of people in the world, you couldn't possibly want to kiss them all, or even a small fraction of them.  There no efficiency in that.  It's a very small subset you're looking for.