Talk:Seddie/@comment-11518636-20130910234239/@comment-14284535-20130912012506

I definitely was friendzoned a lot - more times than I care to think about.

Also, you might not be friendzoned. You might just be interested in people who are just clueless. My first serious GF once complained to me that I was the most frustrating guy to be interested in because I don't know what a hint looks like.

Also, feelings can change over the years. A friend of mine friendzoned me in our early teens while she gallivanted with bozos that weren't worth her time. I had friendzoned her by our late teens. In our late twenties, we were having coffee when she asked me if I would like to go on a date. I am glad that I have a rule that says, "it doesn't matter if you've friendzoned someone; if she wants more, maybe she knows something I don't." I accepted. Even though it didn't work out, our spouses know that we don't regret it.