Talk:Seddie/@comment-24341760-20150618113650/@comment-25746087-20150618140102

^Very true. Which is why I don't like either Nadisen or '''Nondon. '''With Nadisen, Nathan's whole world was Madisen, she had him wrapped around her little finger. However, like you said, it was at a lesser extent, where he desperately tried to reach out and keep friends, especially with Jennette.

Now, Nathan doesn't seem to be reaching out to anyone; he's staying in a bubble surrounded by only London and her family, his family, and people of the church. Christians who will support him and London and tell them they are following, "God's Path, the right path." I think he's keep these people close, whether intentionally or not, because he's afraid that if he starts hanging around his old friends, who will try to talk some common sense into him, that he'll try to call off the engagement and be all alone.

Nathan doesn't realize that he's only '''23. He has his entire life '''ahead of him, and that if he isn't in love with London, he shouldn't marry her just in hopes that he may fall in love with her one day, and that London may take Madisen's place, and hold the delusion that this is, "The path God put them on." But his deep insecurities of losing Madisen and needing someone to love have ruined that, and probably seeing Madisen, the supposed, "love of his life" completely in love with someone else a month after they broke up probably made his insecurities and desperation worse.