Talk:Seddie/@comment-24416426-20140731211430/@comment-14284535-20140801222923

Unfortunately, women her age who have not had great luck with guys often start flaunting what they have and become sluttier until they feel better about herself. What is worse in her case is literally every female around her has had a fair number of BFs.

In many ways, she would be best served by getting out of the spotlight completely. That would give her time to get away from the idiotic pressures of Hollyweird and get her head back where she will be happier with it. As an aside, this is one of the reason that so many Nick and Disney women seem to come unglued after a while - they are forced into untenable situations of trying to be something they are not rather than growing up semi-normally if not ideally.

I hate to think she's going down the route of several of my female friends. They  did some monumentally stupid things that wind up being subjects of Lifetime Movies of the Week. The worst thing that happens for the ones who stay on this route the longest is they never really learn their lesson and either become serial daters or wind up with far worse guys than they would have liked. Often it is because they seem to have learnt to value having a BF all the time is preferable to being alone for much longer periods but then getting a good BF.

The ones who did the monumentally stupid things but were lucky enough to eventually land a decent husband and a stable family life learn via several harsh lessons. Usually, its starts by having a string of guys that they are embarrassed that they were with and decide to raise their standards. Then they decide that having a good guy is preferable to what they have been finding. But they are not used to being alone for long periods, whence they decide to settle for the nicest single guy they have known the longest. When that relationship doesn't work, they find that many of the guys they want won't have anything to do with them and really need the support of their nige guy friends. After several frustrating years, the finally get something good. But they paid a high price to get their lives back in order.