Thread:3cooldog92/@comment-3180503-20120618155642/@comment-3247345-20121116073738

I don't know what Z! blog is. There was an incident with my friend creddierocksmysocks and an admin over there. I promised to stop bringing this up on the iCarly wiki so I won't go into the details of what happened. The comments on the Seddie and Creddie pages as well as my user contributions on the Victorious wiki since Tuesday pretty much tell the story if you're curious. I can tell the other reasons. This drama caused me to realize I couldn't live with the problems over there. Besides the problems I have with the admins because of this drma there's a couple reasons I don't like it there.

The first thing is I never fit in. I posted every day since May and I'm just as much of an outsider now as I was then. Mori is the only person I connected with. I think this is because I don't ship anything and I'm just not as passionate about Victorious as I am about iCarly. I just don't think it's worth spending all that time there when I'm not connecting with people, you know?

My second problem is the general atmosphere over there. They're so whiny. You can not have an opinion over there without being considered rude. EVERYTHING is offensive to them unless you're kissing some ship's butt. As you know I go on rants from time to time. Those rants are the target of incessant bitching from the whiners. "You're rude" "this is offensive" wa wa wa wa wa wa wa. A simple "I disagree" doesn't cut it for them. They have to act like I'm doing something wrong by voicing my opinion. I'm sick of everything having to be sugar coated to the point where it's meaningless. The funny thing is that this is the same crowd that frequently and loudly demands that their opinion be respected. Why is it that I'm not entitled to the same courtesy? I'm not demanding agreement. I just want to be able to voice my opinion without being called rude or offensive. If you remember I told you about an incident on the Cabbie page where people did this stuff. Actually it should be in this thread somewhere. It turns out this is the norm for that wiki. The Cabbie page is the worst in this regard but the Bade and Bori pages aren't immune. I've never had this problem here. I've had some spirited debates but I've never been called rude or offensive unless it was from someone on the Victorious wiki. I find that very telling. I feel like I can be myself here but over there I have to conform to these informal rules that I feel are unnecessary and downright moronic. I'm not staying there when the culture is like that. Giantkid said it best. That place is like a middle school.

I decided to avoid shipping after iLY and that's paying off big time. Not only was it easier to leave when I realized how toxic that place is but I can't imagine having shipping debates with those babies. There wouldn't be any intelligent conversation. It would all degenerate into "Bade is bad", "Bori is boring" and every 3 year old's favorite "you're mean!".

That's why I'm not going back there. I'm willing to give the Sam and Cat wiki a shot when it picks of up but I have a feeling that the Victorious users will ruin the atmosphere there too. By the way, what was the Z! blog about?