User blog comment:FallinqForYouhx3/Freddie going back and forth between Sam and Carly would not please me/@comment-4402317-20110928032536/@comment-4473095-20110928041644

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Great post. I can actually see where you're coming from, but I have to disagree.

1. I really don't believe Carly applies to "everyone." Carly is her best friend. She tells Carly everything. Carly knows how Sam is feeling before even Sam herself says it (Carly: Sam loves you). Carly knows that Sam loves Freddie. Sam didn't check herself into a mental hospital for nothing. Carly knew it was because her feelings for Freddie were so strong that it became unbearable to handle. Carly is aware of how Sam is feeling.

2. Freddie knows not to take whatever Sam does/says personally. Even after iCan't take it, he was still able to believe that she loved him. He knows Sam doesn't say "I love you" to just anyone. She loves Freddie and he knows it. And his love for Sam is so weak that he can easily switch targets and revert back to loving Carly? That doesn't work for me.

3. Carly already learned her lesson from iSYL. She wouldn't confuse her feelings for love after what happened last time. It wouldn't make sense to me. Carly does want a boyfriend, but she would never just settle for anyone. She wants to find love. She deserves it.

4. Sam should respect and love herself enough to not let a guy play her like that. To not let a guy love her whenever it feels right for him. Sam has to love herself in order to love Freddie. And I don't like the idea of Sam taking Freddie from Carly after Carly develops real feelings for Freddie. It would make her no better than Carly in my opinion.

5. Carly will still be hurt if she was dating Freddie and had real feelings for him,regardless if she is a good friend or not. No one likes being taken advantage of. No one likes to lose someone they love. No one likes to feel worthless. And I think that's exactly how Carly would feel if Freddie went back to Sam while he was dating her.

lol Anyway, at least I can see where you're coming from. :)