User blog comment:1seddiefan/Does Mrs. Benson like Sam more than Carly?/@comment-2128395-20100913023743/@comment-3090664-20101008211145

Both Sam and Freddie, have hurt Freddie in some way ( like nearly killing him in ISYL,  Sam does it verbally- but her's was planned and meant ). However is his mom made him he could date someone else.