Talk:Seddie/@comment-3247345-20120525035549

Thank you guys for your kind comments about my family "situation". Last night me and my sister had a Twitter conversation about my grandma acting like a child. My sister is graduating from high school for crying out loud. But my grandma can't stand not being the center of attention. My grandma won't stay out of my sister's business. She made her cry last night in the resulting fight, but my sister did stand up for herself. My grandma always likes to pick fights with whoever seems the least able to fight back. Whoever seems the weakest is fair game for her. When I was little I acted out a lot due to my ADHD and my grandma would pick fights with me because she knew my mom couldn't step in because I was acting up. But now that my ADHD is under control, my sister is her target because my grandma knows I'll stand up for my self. The fact that I'm 190 pounds helps too. (I'd never do anything physical to my grandma unless I was pulling her off my mom or sister if they're fight got bad enough but the way I used to act makes me think she's scared to pick on me now that I'm huge) 2 years ago when I graduated my sister was her target, but it wasn't this bad. My sister didn't stand up for herself, so my grandma thinks she can get away with this. This time around my sister is standing up for herself. She's actually fighting back which means theres a ton of chaos. I'm trying to stay neutral throughout all this. But yesterday my grandma pulled me into the fight. Apparently she talks crap about people she fights with to a lot of people. My mom was just repeating the crap she talked to her about my sister's boyfriend. Earlier she talked crap to me, but it was different stuff. So when my mom repeated what she said, she (my grandma) accused me of telling them what she said, even though I didn't say a word. "Thanks Mike" was what she said sarcastically. If she wants to talk crap and keep it a secret she needs to keep track of what she says to who. That pissed my mom off. She knew I was trying to stay out of the fighting so when my grandma tried to pull me in she got really mad. She was all "Don't you dare pull Michael into this. He didn't say a word." That also annoyed me, so even though I'm offically neutral, I'm secretly giving my support to my mom and sister. Tomorrow if things get bad enough I may have to intervene, at least to stop the fighting. One thing is for sure. I'm stepping in if she makes my sister cry again. My sister should not be treated like crap on her graduation day.