User blog comment:TheWheelie24/Thoughts on Seddie vs. Creddie now (POLITE! :D)/@comment-3419317-20110503184435/@comment-3419317-20110506171114

@ TheWheelie24 :

... Wow. I'm not entirely sure where most of that came from.

First, I'm sorry. I obviously should have made this clearer :

Instead of saying that I wasn't planning to respond to this blog, I should have said that I wasn't planning to respond to any more blogs that address the issue of Carly and Freddie's feelings (or, perhaps, the lack thereof) for each other (and, related to that, whether or not a "love triangle" could ever develop on the show).

My statement wasn't really directed at your blog in particular, although in hindsight, I see that it looked that way.

Second, I never said that I was tired of any fans, or any people. I said I was tired of arguing. Specifically, I meant I was tired of arguing about whether or not a love triangle could ever possibly develop on the show.

Also, I didn't mean that I was tired of other people arguing about it. I meant that I no longer wanted to be a part of it myself. I have no issue with people debating the matter, if they wish to. I only meant that I wouldn't be getting into it anymore myself.

Again, I should have made that clear, and I'm sorry. I certainly meant no disrespect.

Third, I acknowledged myself that what I was saying was a "small" point. I never thought it was a big deal, just a thought I had. Some people would call it nitpicking, in fact.

Perhaps I misunderstood what you were trying to say, but it seemed to me that you were citing Freddie's different behavior in Season 4 as evidence that his feelings for Carly had changed in some way. Yes, I understood that you said they could have either faded away or gotten stronger.

The point I was trying to make was that the difference in his behavior may not necessarily have anything to do with his feelings for Carly at all. Rather, that it may simply have had to do with him, and his growing maturity. If that was actually just what you were trying to say, then I apologize for misunderstanding you.

Finally, next to my sister (who actually doesn't care at all which relationship happens on the show) I am, at heart, probably as neutral a shipper as you could find anywhere.

I would not expect anybody to read every post made on this Wiki, but for the record, I have stated many times before that I love both the Carly/Freddie and Sam/Freddie relationships, for different reasons. On my profile page, I have links to five posts or blogs, in two of which I've spoken in support of Creddie, and three in support of Seddie.

I have actually argued that, at least in terms of friendship, Freddie's relationship with Sam was probably the best thing that ever happened to him. If you're a Seddie supporter, and if you loved iOMG and its development of the Sam/Freddie relationship, I am with you on that.

Lately, it may seem that I've spent more time supporting the Creddiers than the Seddiers. If so, it is only because I felt that they needed the support more than the Seddiers do. If you feel that the Creddiers should be supported, and that there is yet hope for their relationship, I am with you on that, too.

Recently, I promised one of the Seddiers that I would try to be more balanced in the future. My blog, "Sam & Freddie - Breaking The Emotional Shell" was intended to be the first step toward that.

TheWheelie24, I'm not really sure why you were so upset by what I wrote, or why you seemed to take it as such a personal attack. Obviously, in hindsight, I should have made it clearer what I was actually thinking.

Again, I meant no disrespect, and I apologize for upsetting you.