Talk:Seddie/@comment-3180503-20150302162834/@comment-14284535-20150303004112

Thank you, Random Sass04.

I get kind of tired of everyone pinning blame on someone. Why can't they have grown apart? I imagine Nick is the biggest reason for their current distance for the reasons that Moden says below, but even so, it's obviously not so bad that Jennette avoids him when Miranda comes a-knocking.

I have had issues with people taking the side of my opposition in some cases and had a falling out. It does not need to be for spite - they can just be looking out for what they perceive as their best interests, and I can even understand that, but I will still be upset and hold it against them. That's life.

Also, when you take a stand on what you believe is a matter of principle (as Jennette did) and someone very close to you also openly supports to - sometimes against their own best interests (as Jerry and Miranda have), it is hard to not take the view that you are betrayed by someone who goes against you (as Nathan has). That's because it feels like a personal attack. Implicitly, they are saying that your principles are out of order, which in turn would imply that they think you are, in some way, morally defective. This is human nature. Eventually, assuming you had a strong foundation and the barrier between you goes away, you can be friends again (cf. Madisen with Jennette).