Talk:Seddie/@comment-3180503-20150310155122/@comment-3503487-20150311081051

Not gonna comment on the whole KCA situation because all the good speculations were already said x) that would really require a full tell-all for us to confirm everything.

With Nathan, while I'm inclined to say Jennette probably should have gotten over whatever the issue was by now, we really do not know what happened and I don't think she needs to say anything to Nathan. Perhaps he pushed her over the line and she cut him out, no turning back. If we're going by those Jathan theories and if he really hurt her enough to turn her to Madisen, who many theorize started the problem in the first place, maybe he did really do something. I don't think Nathan is the type to purposely hurt people as the consensus here is mostly that his flaw is his naivete and possibly shallowness and not actual villainy. But I won't say that Jennette's in the wrong to ignore him unless I know what happened. I've been in the position several times where myself or someone I know have been hurt by/bothered enough by someone personally over and over and tried ignoring as a result. In that instance, if the other person tries reaching out and being friendly about it, it might easily look like I or my friend is the one holding a grudge and refusing to forgive, when outsiders have no idea what happened. I doubt this is the same case, but this is where I can see myself identifying with Jennette's lack of acknowledgment for Nathan. Either way, I'll take the silence over over passive-aggressive type of speech she's capable of as seen in the twitlonger she wrote before.

I think it's great that she's not doing more mudslinging. But I don't think dismissing the perceived feud as built up solely by fans is remotely accurate even though I would normally agree that fans cause most of the problems. These stars can't control their fans, but they can control how they respond to them. And for crying out loud, even dismissing the twitlonger, the WNFS shade was obvious and so were Jennette's tweets with Perez. Are we supposed to pretend we didn't see those now? I don't think she necessarily needs to do a full blown apology over what happened but at least assume the responsibility of what she did and not throw it completely over to fans. Nonetheless, I'll take this over the pettiness of the shade she threw before. She's clearly in a better place now to address these things directly.