Talk:Seddie/@comment-5099474-20120513124039/@comment-5099474-20120513145358

Hahaha, I'm definitely a girl (who married her best friend, I might add)! Did you seriously not know any girls who only wanted a guy because he wanted you? Really?? Because that happened to me my entire HS career. If I liked a guy, suddenly another girl would like him, too. If a guy liked me, other girls would get butt-hurt and start trying to get him to like them. Girls are vindictive that way. Not all of us, no. But to say you have never seen this, or to even say you didn't see it often, seems to me to be unrealistic. I'm not sure I properly followed your post. I at no point indicated it was right for girls to behave this way. Just that they do. Especially when they are young. Again, you may not have been that way, and from the way you talk you were obviously a good friend. There are plenty of girls who are respectful of other girl's feelings. But there are enough girls who go out of their way to hurt other girls by "stealing their men" that it is perfectly fair to say it is also a normal behavior. My only question here is why people act like it would be "strange" for Freddie to go back to Carly after dating Sam. Do the majority of high schoolers not explore their options? Not only do I not think it would be strange for Carly to go back to Freddie, I honestly don't think it would be strange (in the sense of normal teenage relationships) for Freddie to go back to Sam afterward. Kids date around. The only thing that wouldn't seem quite real would be for Sam and Carly to continue to be nonchalantly cool about a situation that would make most females fight. Anyway, so yes, I am a girl. And I went to high school once, too! What I described is what I witnessed when I was in school. If your experience was different it does not make me wrong about mine. It does not make my experience abnormal, either. You didn't address my only curiosity: Why do people think it would be unusual for Freddie to go back to Carly?