Talk:Colonel Steven Shay/@comment-26336360-20150422203516/@comment-25803656-20151015132326

+DaChurchPants&SamPuckettsDad206:One Carly and Sam have been friends since they were so I highly doubt that Sam&Cat's relationship would change how Sam feels about Carly or Freddie(plus Freddie and Sam Dated). Iam pretty sure the only thing that the Sam and Cat relationship proves is that Sam hates Her own dad but Iam guessing that is because Sam also has a missing father that she hates,never sees,never mentions...etc so Sam needed to take her anger and frustration out on someone and Carly's dad was the best choice since he is half present in Carly&Spencer's life but also half missing. And Sam&Carly probably bond over that. Iam hetting Sam was just letting out how she feels about her dad not being around through her actions towards colonel shay(in other words Iam pretty sure Sam does not even truly hate she probably just pretends to when really Sam probably her own dad. I am pretty sure Carly and Sam and Freddie do not hate each other. If Sam did hate them it probably has to do with the fact that they both have a loving parent who actually shows them that they love them but it does not mean she wants to stop being their friend. I would not even say Sam has moved on from Freddie and Carly since Freddie and Sam in Sam&Cat are obviously still friends since Freddie's phone number is still in Sam's phone in the killer tuna jump epsoide.

Sam has a strained relationship with her mom so Sam's relationship with her own father is going to be worse then what Sam has with her own mom.

Ever notice how Sam never mentions her own father in the series? Iam pretty sure if Sam hated anyone it would her own family,Kind of Freddie's mom(even Freddie kind of hates her at times),Lewbert Obviously,Nora,Missy Robinson&Valerie are probably the most people that Sam hates that Sam was referring to in Yay day with her note to cat on the yay day present. But Iam 100% sure Carly,Spencer,Freddie&Carly's dad are not on the list of people she hates.

Because also in yay day Sam also starts saying something about if she was ever given a good birthday present then she tells cat about her nineth birthday and her mom.

And if Sam had a happier life in Sam and cat it was because she was away from Her own Mom.