Talk:Seddie/@comment-4079686-20110824010923/@comment-3553219-20110824185638

Obviously I think it is very very unlikely Carly and Freddie would get together. But I think people are simplifying love and the complexity of emotions, a bit.

In June, I was a bridesmaid in my best friend's wedding. She was marrying a guy I dated for two years (and loved) and they began dating shortly after the break up. They are still my two closest friends and there was never a point when they weren't. I was totally ok with it. Why? Because I loved them both and they were a perfect match. And when you love someone sometimes their happiness is more important to you than your own discomfort. I DO NOT think Creddie will ever happen. But I think it does Sam, as a character, a disservice to think she would be selfish enough to stand in the way if they broke up and those two really wanted it. Sam is selfish in a lot of ways but she would do anything for Carly and Freddie and she is capable of getting over her own lingering feelings if she they had already mutually broken up.

Love is more complex than just wanting someone and then not wanting anyone else to have them.