Talk:Seddie/@comment-25746087-20150625124015/@comment-5998251-20150625213439

I relate to this girl in so many levels. I want someone who understands me, but I understand them as well. I want it to be a two way street rather than one way. Also to make sure he falls in love with me, the person, not the concept. However, I do know people who are my inspirations that are married and are perfectly capable of balancing their dreams and their spouse. CassJayTuck, a youtuber who vlogs about books is a perfect example. 2014 was her struggling year because of the job interviews lined up for her, finals for college and wedding preparations. Some people can handle it like her, but others who can only focus on one thing, making their lives revolve around that one thing. That isn't healthy so it really depends on the individual I feel like. You can compare it to recommending books to certain people. Content does NOT equal age. Content equals maturity.