User blog comment:Churchpants/Freddie Can't Date Sam If He's Not in Love with Her?/@comment-3225961-20110511000256

I agree that you don't necessarily have to be head over heels or even butterflies, but there definitely needs to be the attraction and interest. Freddie will have to pull his weight for this to work. It also depends on how he actually sees Sam; I personally can't tell if he sees her as more than a friend, or the like. I've had guys ask me out but, I've been honest, and know it won't work out b/c I have a hard time seeing them or wanting them to be more than friends. I don't think it's wrong for anyone to give a relationship a try; if it works out between them, I can't complain.