Talk:Seddie/@comment-5679407-20130601050852

@Seddierebel2010: We may not know what went on through Carly's head when she kissed Freddie, but Dan does. I'm not saying that his explanation wasn't a cop-out, nor am I saying it wasn't a bit too convenient, but writing for both Carly and Freddie, makes him the only authority to speak on Carly's and Freddie's behalf. And he says, for better or worse, that the kiss manifested from a sudden realization that they, as close friends, were going to miss each other. There's no choice but to accept that context because, essentially, Carly's and Freddie's intentions are Dan's intentions.

Carly doesn't get a "free-pass" as you put it. I just don't find anything wrong with what she did. Both she and Sam have a romantic history with Freddie, albeit her relationship with Freddie being less developed than that of Freddie's and Sam's. And this code that "you don't make a move on your friend's ex--" has never been a point highlighted in the show. In fact, Dan tends to overlook it--having both girls date the same boys (Shane and Freddie.) There are many elements in iCarly that are relatable, but you must also keep in mind that the tone and dynamic is dictated by Dan. And most of what we condiser egregious offenses are comically indispensable in the Schneiderverse. I mean, if I were Freddie and my girlfriend sabatoged an application to a program that could possibly benefit a future career because "I didn't know what time it was," I would've taken more than 5 minutes to consider forgiving her--if at all. But Dan doesn't like to approach many of the situations in his show too seriously--something he said. For the most part, he keeps it light and funny, seldomly conveying genuine dynamics--which is what attracted me to Seddie in the first place.

Ultimately, this falls on Dan's opinion. Dan is Sam; Dan is Carly; and Dan is Freddie. If Dan doesn't see anything wrong with the Creddie kiss, I doubt Sam will--if and when Dan wants her to find out. I'm sure there are many reasons for the Carly-hate, but I'm just latching on to the trend of Carly-hate responses that stem from iGoodbye's creddie kiss.

And if I'm not mistaken, Seddierebel, aren't you among those who want Seddie to happen in Sam & Cat? If that's the case, why would you want Sam to be with a douchie ass-wipe?