Talk:Seddie/@comment-5258133-20120808211449/@comment-4184884-20120808215516

Generally speaking, no I do not think it is acceptable to date a friend's ex, especially if the relationship was serious and feelings still exist (which is how I feel about seddie and that's part of why the idea of Creddie happening again makes my skin crawl. No offence. haha. Seddie's relationship was the most serious romantic relationship and also one of the longest on the show. They were in love and as such, were the first romantic pairing on the show to ever say so. Not to mention, after iPS and iOAR it seems to me that Sam still has feelings for him and I don't think Freddie is exactly out of the clearing w/ his feelings for her either. As they say, the opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference and Freddie is anything but indifferent. Anyways, getting OT. Sorry. lol).

However, if it was just a fling, the feelings weren't serious, both parties moved on ages ago, and your friend was 100% honestly okay with it, then go for it. This is part of why seddie happening after creddie in iSYL wasn't a big deal. Carly & Freddie were never really official, their thing only lasted maybe a week, and, from a seddier's perspective, Carly never loved Freddie. It's why she could smile and cheer Seddie on in iLMM and onward. In a situation like that, dating someone who had something with your friend is ok, because you're not hurting them by doing it.