Talk:Creddie/@comment-4402317-20120422053836/@comment-5043573-20120422192214

Here is the thing you Seddiers out there:

1. Sam IS abusive. You try to say that Freddie was emotionally abusing her? No, he was not. He didn't know her feelings so acting like they didn't exist isn't abusive, it's sad, but not abusive. Sam on the other hand, purposely hurt Freddie and destroyed tons of equipment. That IS abusive. And, we're not talking about old slapstick either which extends from the boy being perverted, a jerk or getting the girl jealous. Sam just liked to hurt him and made it so much a part of her that she had a difficult time adjusting to not hurting Freddie seriously. That does not make a good relationship.

2. There have been plenty of episodes since they broke up, so why isn't okay for Freddie to move on? I could understand if it ended the season with the Seddie arc, but it didn't. They readjusted to being friends again, but that's what they were.

3. Their break up was a mutual decision based off incompatability. They came to the decision together that they just don't work and that they took friendship feelings as romantic. This WAS said in the episode. They did have a physical attraction, but that's as far as it was going.

4. "Is it too late for you to love me?" can be seen as that Freddie decided that in the end, Carly was the one he wanted to be with. After dating many girls and even Sam, Carly was the one he wanted.

5. If we talk about being bad for dating your best friend's ex...Then Sam's in the wrong. Sam dated Carly's ex. Hell, Sam sabotaged Carly and Freddie's relationship. How is that okay?

6. And, saying that Carly was only jealous because she wanted a boyfriend? That's an interpretation to prove she doesn't like Freddie, but something like that shouldn't be stated as fact. Most probably because that's looking down on Carly's character.

7. Sam and Freddie's "I love you" felt like when couples get a divorce say it to each other. They really did feel something for the other, but in the end, it takes more than emotions and physical attraction. There was something that just didn't work.