Talk:Seddie/@comment-6977360-20120109033445/@comment-3553219-20120109042914

I don't like love/hate, at all. I don't think that most people are blind to their "real feelings". If I like someone I know what I am feeling. If I dislike someone it is genuine dislike. The whole "hate it really love" thing is pretty silly, usually. I tend to like best friend turned romances better because it is more realistic. It is very common to not want to ruin a friendship over a relationship that might fail.

I think Seddie is different. I think it is just very natural. I think Sam is the type of person who genuinely has reasons to be really uncomfortable about sharing her emotions and covering it with hate. He was in love with her best friend, she came from a bad family who doesn't show love the right way, she is naturally aggressive, and she genuinely does find him annoying. I think she had her own genuine reasons to dislike Freddie, at first (he was always butting into her time with Carly). And I think Freddie is someone who would at first hate Sam but then, overtime, really grow to love how she challenges him. I think you could see as early as Season 1 where Freddie was more interested in the fighting with Sam than Carly. And then overtime I think that grew into being more interested in Sam. I think they managed to make it complex and not cliche.