User blog comment:Churchpants/Freddie Can't Date Sam If He's Not in Love with Her?/@comment-3044684-20110510222444

Yes! That's what I've been saying! It's actually abnormal to be in love with someone by the first date, it takes time to fall in love. I'm not in love with my boyfriend, but I like him a lot and care for him deeply, I just haven't reached that point yet, doesn't mean we can't date. Freddie can date Sam as long as he has feelings for her, it doesn't have to be love yet. And I doubt Carly loved Freddie in iSYL I think it was infatuation, 3 days is not long enough to fall in love with someone.