Thread:CreddieCupcake/@comment-4542190-20120708185319/@comment-4542190-20130125184556

You realised of course I was kidding there, right? :)

Wow, you're very true to your word-reminds me of my own looong comments ;)

It wouldn't be a double standard, it would acknowledge the fact that Sam and Freddie are not like Carly and Freddie- the latter two have a lot of backstory and background regarding the "romance" aspect, far more than the former two. Sam and Freddie both came to the realization that they were not going anywhere like this, it didn't work out, they couldn't get along- even when supposedly, they were doing "ok" (Carly:"Did you hit him?" Sam: "Not in the face!" I mean, come on!). I know that this sounds harsh for people who love Seddie but how iLove You ended was closure. Curtains. Sam becoming "more normal" would mean that she wouldn't be Sam anymore and likewise for Freddie becoming "more abnormal". Changing your character completely is never worth it (unless its for the best which in that case isn't), especially in love- you should be accepted for who you are. Nobody's perfect. And really, Sam's behavior in iOMG came out of nowhere- Carly's and Freddie's surprise over this confirmed it (and after this episode, she reverted back). People who say that everything that happened before the arc was "expressions of love" can't expect me to not crack up at this- if iCarly was closer to reality or Freddie wasn't depicted unbreakable like Superman at times (like I've said before), he should be hospitalised (because of what Sam did him) on many occasions-and in critical condition, I'm talking ER. It would have all the drama of Grey's Anatomy, if you know what I'm saying (have you watched it?). And let's not talk about the emotional pain. Jennette said so herself, "Seddie makes no sense to me" (and she prefers Creddie! :) ) and she experienced these stuff firsthand. Nathan said so (and I before him), a "relationship" like Seddie can only be presented as tolerable and plausible in a fictional and comedic environment. Because (to me at least) there's so such thing as love/hate in real life. People who go crazy about couples of this theme probably don't understand what hate really is- of course, it's always ridiculed to fit into sitcoms etc There can't be love and hate-it's either the one or the other. Love is a gift to humans from God (as is life)- He granted us the blessing to feel this wonderful feeling (and humans alone by the way). Hate on the other hand is a crime against God (because it's a crime against fellow humans), it's one of the worst things one can.."achieve" in life. Now, about Creddie I'll be a bit shorter. Like you said, they were shown together for just one episode- there was really little time for a relationship to be presented and unraveled (pretty unfair for Creddiers...). Though iSaved Your Life was plain magnificent and adorable <3 You know, I believe one of the reasons (or the main reason) Carly and Freddie didn't talk much about their feelings and relationship in iSaved Your Life and iGoodbye is that... they really didn't need to talk much. I mean, one minute they were talking and next minute they were together..naturally <3 Contrary to some..non-descript people claim, Carly and Freddie did a lot more things than just kissing. They shared so many hugs, showed many MANY instances of jealousy for the other, obvious signs of affection, Carly admitted what Freddie's love for her meant (iChristmas), they danced together, romantically, Freddie gave his life for Carly and generally being her Guardian Angel <3 and so many other parts where it was shown how much they care for each other... And you know, they were originally going to kiss after the dance in iSpeed Date, so they would be together after that- again, naturally. And come on, that scene in iGoodbye was friggin' adorable and touching <3 It didn't leave much to imagination... As to why Freddie decided to break up with Carly (temporarily), I believe it was due to the immense love he had and always will have for her. He couldn't believe that the girl of his dreams, his princess from fairy tales, his world, the girl who means everything to him and he has been in love with since he could remember himself finally loved him back-it was too good to be true for him. That's why the crap that Sam told him about bacon found ground on him. We all remember his reaction when Carly kissed him, don't we? :) And he deeply regretted it immediately afterwards- he felt forced to do this while he didn't want to. And Carly was sad (as was Freddie)- but still, she gave him a kiss <3 She could choose not to but she didn't. She knew how much this would mean for Freddie and that it would make him happy (even a bit more, because the break up overshadowed both). Plus, she wanted to make her stand a bit more clear think ;) And I don't remember Freddie regretting breaking up with Sam- in fact, I don't remember him being sad at all. This tells a lot-like that, it was the right thing to do. The break up in iSaved Your Life was by no means closure for Creddie- it ended in a cliffhanger for their relationship

Now, my more..personal view. What I believe was going on after their break up was that, both were afraid to make a move, both waited for the other. So, there was a stalemate. I remember what you've said about them burying their feelings. I..kinda disagree (sorry!). What I believe is that their love for each other was always there, never went away or was buried, strong as ever. But, since both were waiting for the other to make a move, both Carly and Freddie were afraid that, the other one had completely moved on and didn't love him/her eventually/anymore (respectively). For example, during the arc, Carly didn't say anything out loud or showed jealousy (her face in iOMG tells a lot though) probably because she thought Freddie had completely forgotten about her romantically and Freddie, not seeing any sign from Carly, decided to "give it a try" with Sam. That Carly and Freddie kept loving each other after the break up I believe was evident from some "small details" from both sides- like Carly's giant poster in Freddie's closet (which, as I said, I highly doubt was ever removed, even during the Seddie arc) and likewise, Freddie's photo in a really close proximity to Carly's bed (next to it actually :D) in her new room without a photo of Spencer, Sam or Gibby seen anywhere close to that (uh-oh! BUSTED! Remember I said I like saying this one? :) ) In iOaR (first time I use an acronym for an episode, wow!) Freddie made the opening! You know, I believe this was the right and only fair way for Creddie to be revisited and hopefully, continue. Freddie was the one who "walked away" from Carly so he should make the first move, attempt to come back to her. Supposedly, Carly should make the move first according to what they said in iSaved Your Life (I don't want to use an acronym for this episode <3 ) but as I said above, I believe she was afraid that Freddie didn't love her anymore, she felt unsecure. And also, the break up came really hard on her, she was obviously sad in these scenes... And in iGoodbye, Carly replied to Freddie's question in iOaR <3 as well as showed what she makes of the "bacon" !(&*(&%##%*(:}{"?>{<......

Well, I don't know if you remember, but you talk exactly like me in a certain blog of mine... Where I say I'm sure I love her but there are many aspects and forms of love and I really don't know if I'm in love with her...Well, this uncertainty left me pretty fast- I don't think I was ever uncertain to be honest. The irony is that, it wasn't love at first sight. We talked in previous years in the university, I knew from them that she was a really nice person but, I didn't feel something. Until some day, something changed. I didn't know what (or how) it was then, I don't now and I don't think I'll ever find out. All I knew then was that, something was different inside me about this girl. I wanted to know her better, grow closer. And it finally came to me- I was in love with her... Seriously... Deeply... Suddenly, I became addicted to her, like she was a drug. She makes me feel like Heaven every single time she's near. The reason I'm telling you all these is because I believe you're in the same place with me right now- the (really extremely short or essentially non existant) uncertainty part. They say you truly love only once in your life- if that's true, then I believe I've reached there with my Bella...<3 Seems to me you're there too... (If you want to continue this specific subject with PM on ff.net just tell me)

After that no, for the moment...

I really don't want to argue wirh you (Creddie ranting is different than that! :) )...

Awwh Cupcake, you make me sad now, this will leave a mark on me...:( What happened to you saying how much you love Creddie and it being so special to you because of the similarities it has to your real life? Don't tell me that the others are EVEN more similar... After some recent dialogue we had, I thought Creddie rose to your appreciation even more than before... This is just...really unsettling...

Well, I have really limited time (blasted last days in the army. Won't they go away eventually? 9th March isn't very far away)

P.S. Wow, really big length... Hope this doesn't keep you from replying-due to you being busy and not having much time...