User blog comment:Alica123/...The whole "Katydidit-drama" in my POV/@comment-1874176-20110801173044/@comment-3180503-20110803212405

Here is why (in my opinion) the situation is mostly *my* fault:

I was the one that got all friendly with him in the first place. I don't think he would have ever brought up "kissing" and "meeting" if I hadn't been so clingy with him. In a lot of ways, I was *encouraging* his behavior. Then, to make matters worse, I left for 4 months, leaving the situation to be forgotten and unresolved. Also, it gave him the opportunity to grow closer to SLH and Alica. (Plus, I even started to e-mail and tweet him, which probably only worsened his issues.) By the time I came back, he had already done most of his damage and I continued to speak with him, even then. A bit later, however, my mom found out and didn't want me communicating with him, so I stupidly brought the topic up to SLH, in which we both finally found out (partly) what he was up to. But, instead of maturely bringing this issue to the attention of an admin, I went on a little *mini-rampage* and made the whole problem public. Alica wanted to report him from the start, but I was hesitant because he was my friend, and I didn't want to see him gone. That's why it took forever for something to be done.

Whew! Okay, so to all of you blaming yourselves for this whole thing, I have already made it completely clear that this is mostly my fault. I accept *full* responsibilty for the way things turned out. The end. xP