Talk:Seddie/@comment-5099474-20120514032023

One thing is for certain, I'll love the Creddie ship until the (UNLIKELY :) ) day they lower the mast, but the Seddie Wiki is where the fun is. I have a new question, why do you think Sam and Freddie are such a good couple? What makes them a better match in your eyes than Carly and Freddie? Can you please list some pros and cons? I'm just interested in your opinions, is all. In no way am I trying to convince you that your ship is wrong.

For me, my pros for Seddie are as follows: --Sam's unrequited love speaks to me on a level I am very familiar with. --When first loves work out it satisfies all those unrealistic expectations of romance Disney has given me. --Sam is one of few girls to ever like Freddie romantically. --Freddie could possibly help Sam become a better person.

My cons for a Seddie romance are: --Sam is verbally abusive, I could not be in a relationship with someone who is consistently mean to me. I've never gone for that type of guy, the one who picks on you "because he likes you," even though many of my girlfriends did. Now as adults they're all torn up over the constant bickering they still endure. I married a man who has never said a mean word to me, it does wonders. --Ending up with your first love is always cute, like I said, but so is "getting the girl," and Carly has always been "the girl." --Sam doesn't take any interest in things Freddie likes. She didn't really even manage to respect them when they were dating.

...Personally, when it comes to ships, I always choose the best friends becoming more ships as opposed to the opposites attract ships. I'm really a fan of easy love. In my eyes, love should just click like perfect puzzle pieces. I don't want to spend all my time trying to make things fit that don't. It is exhausting and destructive. I don't think you should ever be with someone who you feel "needs to change," from the start, that seems wrong to me. Find the person who is already right, not one you'll "fix." Opinions please!!