Thread:Cartoonprincess/@comment-25746087-20151108143307/@comment-25746087-20151108191903

As you know, I would rather have Nathan not have been with either of them, but yes, Nadisen was a thousand time more stable than Nondon is (and the marriage is in a week, the 15th :x).

And I completely agree with you; Madisen was the one who started Nathan's belief of, "having to make your whole world your girlfriend." Some can argue that Nathan would have been that way with any girl he dated, but I don't necessarily agree. The thing Madisen and London have in common is that they are incredibly possesive, and want their boyfriend's (or husband in London's case) sole attention on them. They want/ed Nathan to put them completely first, and they both have/had him wrapped around their little finger.

The difference between the two is how they wanted to be. People say Nadisen was better because Nathan had more friends and was more lively, but think about it, '''did/was he? Yes, he worked, and he may have had more friends, but it was so clear that he focused his entire '''world on Madisen, pushing everyone else away. The reason why people don't see that with Nadisen is because Nathan wasn't Madisen's whole world like she was with him. Madisen wanted(or still wants, really) to be a star, a famous singer/actress/model that people will recognize for her own work, not as the, "arm candy of child star Nathan Kress." Did Madisen want to be Mrs. Kress? Absolutely, but she wanted to be, "Madisen Kress, the superstar", not so much "Madisen Kress, wife/arm candy of Nathan Kress." Madisen cares immensely about her career, so that's why it seems that Nathan was more free and open, when in reality, all the small pieces throughout their relationship, and what Nathan became after they broke up shows the complete opposite, and I'm confident Madisen knew how in love/obsessed Nathan was with her, and she wanted to keep it that way.

With London, London doesn't care about having a career; she wants to be known as, "The wife/arm candy to Nathan Kress & the mother of the Kress children." She loves having the identity as, "Nathan Kress' wife", and doesn't want a name for her own. While Madisen had other things on her mind than Nathan, London doesn't. London's whole world is Nathan, just like how now Nathan's whole world is London; therefore, it is a lot easier to see Nathan's disturbing behavior with the Nondon marriage and it wasn't as easy with Nadisen.