User blog comment:GiantKid/Why I don't ship Seddie :)/@comment-3122172-20110911144420/@comment-4402317-20110911162039

Thanks for the long comment -- I'll write down what I think. :)

1. See, I really believe that he does not enjoy the fighting. If he enjoyed fighting with her he wouldn't be trying to fix their relationship in iDS&F. He would have gone "oh, we always do this and now its just even more exciting." It's not in Freddie's nature to fight with anyone else, only Sam because she was the first to do it to him, and it's something that he had to get use to before he started to develop feelings for her. It's my opinion, true, I'm not Dan, but based off of iDS&F I think it's pretty safe to assume that either one agrees that their constant fighting is good for their relationship.

"If you can't even solve your own problems, then you shouldn't be dating at all" - Carly

2.While I will agree that Carly and Freddie both accept Sam, even though she does things that are wrong, I feel that the quote I said from Carly above sums it up perfectly. He DOESN'T like it. PERIOD. He does not like how Sam disrespected him (and he to her) this entire episode. I agree with icarly.com "100% annoying." If he liked Sam's "pushy and aggressive" behavior (now in a gf like manner) he wouldn't be trying to fix her. He would be in AWE of her.

3. Again, I don't count what happened in iKiss. Freddie was just as much ignoring Carly as he was Sam. There was no arguing between them after she told the world that he had never kissed anyone. iKiss had a cute moment where they reached an "understanding" with one another, but I do not count it as a compromise as passionate, genuine, and as extreme as Cam had in iQuitiCarly.

4. I can't recall any episode where Sam and Freddie are hanging out alone and are not arguing is what I mean't. There are plenty of scenes where Carly and Freddie are alone and they are just being goofy and accepting one another. Yes, Freddie is a goof and doesn't change around Sam in that respect, but he never allows his inner goof to come out around Sam. This is probably due to her always making fun of him before so he is 1. either afraid or 2.doesn't feel comfortable being his "inner goof" around her.

5. Again, the definition of soul mate is "two bodies: one soul". Carly and Freddie are a lot more similar than Sam/Freddie are, and I think that makes them more qualified for being soul mates. It's true, that people have different views and beliefs of soul mate, but I am just pulling it out of good ol Webster. lol.

I would also have to disagree that you KNOW that they still don't have feelings for one another. You can logically assume because Freddie and Carly are not dating as of now, but no one can say they KNOW for a FACT that they don't. It's not rude, mean, or even ooc for either one of them to still harbor a crush for the other person. Especially if it's been for someone for a loooong time.

I'll also get into the Ron/Hermione bit too because I'm a BIG HPnerd B-p lol.

I'll admit, I'm a Harmony fan, but it's basically due to the movies and not so much the books. I knew that Ron and Hermione would get together as I was reading the books, and I really didn't care who ended up with who because I was more focused on the story and not the relationships. The movies are kind of Harmony bias though...if it makes sense I don't ship anyone in the books, but in the movie I ship Harmony---there are so many cute scenes with awesome chemistry! lol

But I'll QUOTE J.K. Rowling

"I had to go through a bunch of Ron's before I met my Harry." She has also quoted that Hermione is based of her.

So from that conclusion, I really believe that she was writing for love/hate relationship purposes, and not off of what Hermione would have really wanted. It really is a "Whattt?" statement after she wrote the books too. lol

6.While I will agree that love/hate relationships turn into just love relationships, I will have to point out that "just because it happened in tv" does not make it, or anything "real" or "realistic".

7.Yes, Sam hates the way her mother is, but that doesn't mean that she isn't like her. A lot of the time people hate others because they see it within themselves. (not sure if thats the correct quote). I'm sure many of us no someone on the forum who is a hypocrite in some form or another, it happens ALL the time. As a teacher, I had to study child psychology, and you would be surprised in the percent of how many children adopt the bad behaviors of their parents, even if they DESPISE what their parents do. There is a reason for the saying "The apple doesn't fall far from the tree."

Also, they were not OOC. Dan may have not wrote the script, but he still looks over it because it's his SHOW. If he really felt that way then he wouldn't have had them write it. He must also trust them.

Thanks for the input, as I have listed, I love getting into debates and conversations with other ships. It makes you think and appreciate a certain ship for how other people view it. :)