Talk:Seddie/@comment-24015721-20140621100146/@comment-14284535-20140621220332

Two things. Remember my stories about how girls my age treated me like crap because of my skin colour, religion, and looks. I found the only nice comments I got from women came from older females I met, the ladies at bridge club and my old friends.

It can be very awkward just kissing an old friend. When I was 23, I was asked out on a date by a woman I had known since kindergarten. We tried to kiss each other several times over the date, but couldn't. We finally did in kind of perfunctory manner towards the end of it, but we felt really strange doing it.

I wonder if Jennette looks at older guys because guys her age just ogle her and just then finds older guys less stressful to be around. When I was 24, I dated a woman who was 60. I didn't think much of it because we played bridge together a lot; she was just another friend to me. Moreover, I was more or less conditioned to think that older women were more likely to overlook my flaws to go out with me. So I get why she might think that of him. In fact, I know lots of young women who feel that way.