User blog comment:Lotstar/iLost My Mind: For Creddie Fans/@comment-5473395-20110611145028/@comment-2032682-20110612063707

Sam making him miserable being 'normal" isn't a justification for it.

It's an excuse that Freddie uses because he refuses to sort out Sam's problems probably because he's scared of her and doesn't want to risk Carly picking Sam over him, and Carly and Spencer also refuse to stop Sam.

There's no reason why Sam should be let off the hook from her actions, and that's not bashing or 'putting Sam down".

And if you want to believe he doesn't care too much as friends. Fine. But you can't seriously believe that's the type of attitude two people in a relationship should have. "Yeah, Sam makes me miserable, but she loves me and it's just the way she is."