Talk:Seddie/@comment-3027660-20120727171319/@comment-26014718-20120727181054

I agree so much, Sam and Freddie's relationship is not abusive.

Sure they do have their arguments, and Sam occasionally punches Freddie or wacks him on the head, sometimes Freddie even tries to fight back. But it is not even close to abusive. But that's Sam and Freddie for you, like you said it's just Sam's natural style to push Freddie around, and it's just like Freddie to retaliate due to his boy ego.

Sam may be mean, rude and obnoxious at times but she is not abusive. Trust me, I have watched and read about alot of documenturies and articles about abuse in families and relationships; and they're just awful. And not once did I think "hey this reminds me of Sam and Freddie's relationship", because it doesn't. Calling Sam and Freddie's relationship abusive is going to the ultermate extreme. Have you ever seen Sam hurt Freddie so bad that he has gone to a hospital? And wouldn't he be terrified of her if she really was soo abusive?

And besides why would Dan promote an abusive relationship on a children's show? Why would he play the laughing track every time Sam punched Freddie, or when they bickered? Dan is not stupid, he knows his limits. I am completely certain he would not purposely or accidently promote or make fun of an abusive relationship. Do you realize how many complaints he would have if he made it seriously abusive? Besides if it was so abusive why hasn't iCarly been cancelled by now?

The trouble with users who claim Sam and Freddie's relationship is abusive dont think of the consequences of their words, (I am going to say that it is mainly some Creddiers, but I bet some non-creddiers have stated that as well), I think they're just looking for number of ways as to why Seddie shouldn't happen; and because Sam and Freddie are sometimes quite physical with each other so they automatically assume the relationship is indeed abusive. Which it is not.

Abusive relationships is a very sensititive and serious topic >;/, So the fact that some people compare it to Sam and Freddie's relationship seriously bugs the hell out of me >_<

Rant over ^+^