User blog comment:Cartoonprincess/The Very First iCarly Wiki Advice Column xD/@comment-2133744-20110624051404/@comment-2208586-20110624204210

1. This happens to many people. I think, due to the reason you ask, that you don't do it on purpose. Next time you say something you're not sure about if it may sound mean, put yourself in the other person's shoes and imagine someone says that to you. Does it sound mean? If yes, try to change your wording, if not, say it and if the person feels offended just say that you didn't mean it that way.

2. I don't understand some special people here either, so that's nothing bad. :)