Talk:Seddie/@comment-26483920-20150610170031/@comment-25819493-20150610182700

Toon pinpointed it exactly. Look, I've been a loyal fan of Nathan's since ... 2010? I enjoyed him as an actor, but I also supported who he was as a person - and that meant his faith too. I don't associate the red flags that most of us are seeing as tied to his faith. But instead with insecurity. Ever since his break-up with Madisen and the post-ITS slump, he just hasn't seemed the same. Instead of focusing on himself and his career, he's instead obsessively/desperately chased for girls affection publicly on social media, and he's seemed to have more emotional ups and downs. He's also starting to publicly acknowledge that he's drinking. Add in the rush to engagement and a wedding with someone he hasn't really known all that long, and in my eyes, it just feels like he's desperately searching for something to feel a void.

You mention that he's nearly 23 and so he knows what he's doing. Just because you're considered an adult, doesn't mean you're always going to think clearly. And we know that we have no say in what he does. But that doesn't mean we can't express our concerns when we see behavior that worries us.