Talk:Seddie/@comment-5039448-20120427230232/@comment-4480410-20120428050313

Hey GUest21,

Firstly, if she thinks you're annoying and she's getting annoyed, maybe you can start by giving her some breathing space. Everyone needs some time to cool down somtimes, even best friends forever. I'm sure things will work out just fine if you stop teasing her and let her know that you feel left out when she gets annoyed. If she still insists in getting mad, then she's probably not your best friend forever to start with.

You can also get more friends. Sure, the rest of the people may think you're annoying, but maybe you can start making new friends by getting to know more people. I'm sure not everyone thinks you're annoying. Maybe a quiet and reserved girl in class would be able to see you for who you are and not just an "annoying" person. I have a classmate whom most people think is annoying too. But I think he's just fine. We chat a little online when it comes to homework and stuff and he's pretty nice too. So, if you ever need someone to talk to or you want to find a friend who won't think you're annoying, then you can always approach the quiet girls. They keep secrets well and they need friends too. So, it's kind of a win-win situation.

Finally, there's no harm in trying to change the attitude of yours. Of course you mean no harm when you "annoy" your friends but sometimes you should be able to tell when you're crossing the line. It helps to get someone whom you trust (anyone, really) to stop you when you're starting to annoy people. That way, you can learn from your mistakes and become a better person. Hopefully, you will stay off of your friend's blacklists too.

Well, I hope that helps. I am no expert in these social situations, but I really hope that you'll be able to become a better person.