Talk:Seddie/@comment-3522361-20120520144247/@comment-4988556-20120520153926

I don't think Beck was a jerk, at all. And I don't get why people think that. Tori and Jade are not really friends. And their major moments of friendship Beck isn't even aware of (he knows Tori helped get them back together he doesn't know Jade was sobbing to her, he knows Tori helped with the play he doesn't know Jade hugged her, he doesn't know Jade helped clean up, he doesn't know anything about their night when they sang Take a Hint etc). From Beck's POV, Tori is nice to Jade and Jade is horrible to Tori. And that has always been the case.

And it is weird for me to defend Beck because I think he was a jerk a lot in that relastionship. I think he encouraged her jealousy. I think he didn't tell girls to back off when he should have. And then he acted all smug and astonished that she should be jealous. BUT he was not wrong here. He has no reason to think of them as friends. He didn't go after his ex's friend. He went after someone he and his ex both know and whom he is much closer to (he thinks).

With Freddie it is totally different. Carly has been Sam's best friend since she was eight. She is more of her sister than her sister. I don't care what anyone says. Asking if she could love him and being jealous in iPS make him a real jerk. Dan has clearly mastered the idea that their is a "bro code" for girls, too. I don't know why he doesn't get the concept that going after your ex's best friend is a really deep violation, as well. Because I think he loves Freddie and doesn't think of him as a jerk.