User blog comment:Ddthegirl94/Carly is one seriously messed up chick and that's a compliment/@comment-4387554-20111110072341/@comment-4564822-20111110082942

I actually thought the whole thing through including her numerous relationships I'm not saying she doesn't want close relationships I'm saying ultimately when put to the test she doesn't allow herself to have them Carly in my opinion also suffers from what I call "Prince charming syndrome"(and it does extending into areas non-romantic as well) she ultimately wants Prince charming(Prince charming will never leave her will live happily ever after with her in her sugarplum Castle) she's afraid to be alone that's why she throws herself into romantic relationships she finds guys who first seem like the perfect male archetype then when they start to have flaws hobbies etc. it's not that she's shallow it's that they start to become real human beings and then she gets scared she can't let them be close the cycle starts again she found reasons to push them away and her numerous relationships actually support my theories more than they deter them

lets take Griffin for an example did the girl who really broke up with the guy over a toy collection sound like the kind caring person her friends describe repeatedly over and over again?no she doesn't

here is what I think really happened Carley found the quintessential perfect guy he was sweet he cared about her but with a little dash of crazy to still be fun and a little bit of a criminal past to drive her dad crazy and on top of it all he was hot he was straight out of a chick flick he was Prince charming but then he shared his hobby he became a real person real people don't stick around so he had to leave her right?so she found a reason to leave him before he could hurt her it may not be the most logically sound reason for pushing him away but emotions aren't logical that is why they are called emotions I don't think she was really bothered by his stuffed animals at all just looking for a reason to dump him sure she teases Freddie about some of his "nerdly pursuits" but most of the time she doesn't seem bothered by it at all